NO CRYING AT MY FUNERAL

NO CRYING AT MY FUNERAL
Showing posts with label Collaboration in God's work. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Collaboration in God's work. Show all posts

Sunday, December 28, 2014

WHY DID JESUS COME INTO THE WORLD AS A BABY? [Francais en bas]



I heard the question posed for the first time at the children’s Mass, to the children eight hours before the hour at which Santa Claus was scheduled to arrive at their home.  Yes, they managed to bring him up in the same breath as Jesus.  But that is another story that has been told by me before, at least twice.

Nevertheless, when the priest threw the question out to the children gathered at his feet, there was a sense in the nave that the adults felt the depth of the challenge of the question.  Yes, why did Jesus come as a baby and not as the great king that he was, in fact, and for whom the world was waiting?  I for one hardly listened to the answer to what had turned out to be an oratorical question.  The children had some answers that the greater audience could not hear and that the priest did not repeat. 

Some five minutes later, I came up with my answer.  I sprang into action.  Tore my pen out of my shirt pocket, took up the parish bulletin that I had next to me and began to write furiously so as not to let the thoughts slither away.  I then folded the notes carefully, slid them into my back pocket and continued to participate in the Holy Sacrifice of the Christmas Mass. 
Now, you understand that at Christmas, there is much personal time allotted to family people who are the elders and have certain social and religious responsibilities to fulfill.  There is not that much time for exclusively personal pursuits.  It is therefore a good thing that Christmas is a ^season^ not a day.  So I have decided to be sure that what I give you will be as close to the exact enlightenment that came to me at 6;00 PM on December 24, 2014 as is possible, given the circumstances.  So, be calm, sit tight, relax and put yourself in the presence of the Good Lord. 
These are some of the answers that I have discovered as given by other people.  Some of them experts in Theology, Some are pastors, preachers and teachers.  So, here we go.

)          The cuddly baby theory
             The reality of new birth astounds us
        This is our future in the flesh before our very eyes
        This is THE amazing gift of life
        Joseph and Mary had to admit that here was a baby who seemed, at first glance, like any                        other newborn child.
                  He cried in the middle of the night.
                  He hungered for milk.
                  He needed fresh "swaddling clothes" every now and then

t    The growing child theory
The infancy of the Child is the sign of his humanity
He grew through the years as any other child (The child grew and became strong, filled with wisdom; Luke 2; 40)

     The witness theory
His infancy is a sign of his humanity
His growing pains are a sign of his humanity
His growth in knowledge in the family through education are a sign of his humanity
His interpersonal relationship problems are a sign of his humanity
His suffering through moral temptations are a sign of his humanity
His physical suffering is a sign if his humanity

Given all of the above, it is good that Jesus came to us as a baby.  All of these statements are true and valid, as far as they go.  I have the one that is different and divergent from all of the above.  I am convinced that I have the teachings of Sacred Scripture as the foundation of my opinion.

I think that Jesus came into this world as a baby because God the Father has a long tradition of directing his creatures to collaborate with Him. From the first pages of Genesis and through the entire collection of Sacred Scripture, God directs His creatures to be productive.  He directs Adam to name the animals, he accepts the sacrifices of Abel, He directs Noah to build the ark, He calls Abraham forth from Ur, He recruits Moses for the purpose of leading His people out of Egypt and to publish the Divine Law, He expects the people to fight for the land that He promised them and He uses the prophets as spiritual guides of His people.  The whole history of salvation is a history of a relationship of collaboration between God and His creature, the human being.
For that reason, His Son, Jesus was sent by Him to earth through one of His creatures, Mary.  Thus, it was the responsibility of Joseph and Mary to nurture the baby son of God in His early stages of being on earth.  It was up to the Elders and priest of the Temple to instruct Him in the Law and to teach Him the spirituality of the Jewish way of life.  It was up to John the Baptist to introduce Him to the religious community.  It was up to the people of the nation to relate to him as their culture and traditions demanded.  Yes, Jesus had to have a complete human existence in the human, cultural environment that would make him effective in the spreading of His message.  He had to be exposed to the religious living of the tenets of the Law, He had to be taught the spiritual traditions of His people, who happened to be the Chosen people of the Father.  He had to live in the midst of people who were living the teachings of the prophets under the influence of the Law and in the spirituality of the Temple.

Jesus was formed in His life by the multicultural social environment of Galilee and the religious convictions of His parents.  This formation was according to the Will of God and it prepared Jesus to be open to obeying the Will of His Father.  Jesus was immersed in the Faith Tradition of His Father’s Chosen People.  It was in and through this deep familiarity of the people that Jesus was able to bring the authority of His closeness to His Father to bear in His teaching of the people.  Jesus taught and lived the Faith in the midst of controversy.  Even this controversy was formative, not only of Jesus but to the apostles who were closest to Him.  Without the completeness of the cultural immersion that He could only have if he was a complete Jew could He have accomplished the Mission given Him by His Father.


That is why, in my opinion, Jesus came to this earth as a baby.

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Pourquoi Jésus est-il venu comme un bébé?

J'ai entendu cette question posée pour la première fois à la messe des enfants, pour les enfants a huit heures du soir avant l'heure à laquelle le Père Noël devait arriver à leur domicile.  Oui, ils ont réussi à le mentionner dans le même souffle que Jésus.  C’est la une autre histoire another story que je vous ai raconté déjà à deux fois. at least twice.
Néanmoins, quand le prêtre a présenté la question aux enfants rassemblés à ses pieds, il y avait un sens dans la nef que les adultes estimaient la profondeur du défi de la question.  Oui, pourquoi Jésus est-il venu comme un bébé et non pas comme le grand roi qu'il était, en fait, et pour qui le monde attendait?  Moi, par exemple, écoutai avec peine a la réponse a une question qui s'était avéré être une question oratoire.  Les enfants ont eu des réponses que le  public en général ne pouvait pas entendre et que le prêtre n'a pas répété. 

Environ cinq minutes plus tard, je suis arrive a ma réponse.  Je sautai tout de suite a me mettre en action.  J'arrachai ma plume de ma poche de chemise, pris le bulletin paroissial que je avais à côté de moi et commençai à écrire furieusement afin de ne pas laisser les pensées glisser trop loin de ma matière grise.  Ensuite, je pliai attentivement mes notes, les glissai dans la poche arrière de mon pantalon et continuai à participer au Saint Sacrifice de la messe de Noël. 
Maintenant, vous comprenez que, à Noël, il y a beaucoup de temps personnel alloué aux personnes de la famille qui sont les aînés et ont certaines responsabilités sociales et religieuses à accomplir.  Il n'y a pas beaucoup de temps pour les activités exclusivement personnelles.  C’est donc une bonne chose que la Noel est ^une saison^ et non un seul jour.  Donc, j'ai décidé d'être sûr que ce que je vous présente sera aussi près à l'inspiration exacte qui me est venue à 18:00 heures du 24 décembre, 2014 qu'est possible, étant donné les circonstances.  Donc, soyez calmes, bien calmement assis et mettez-vous dans la présence du Bon Dieu. 
Voici quelques-unes des réponses que je ai découvertes qui sont proposées par d'autres auteurs.  Certains d'entre eux sont experts en théologie, Certains sont pasteurs, prédicateurs et enseignants.  Alors, on y va.

       La théorie bébé câlin
La réalité de la nouvelle naissance nous étonne
                C'est notre avenir tout vif sous nos yeux
                C'est le cadeau extraordinaire de la vie
Joseph et Marie ont dû admettre qu'il y avait là un bébé qui semblait, à première vue, comme n'importe quel autre enfant nouveau-né.
Il a pleuré dans le milieu de la nuit.
Il avait faim pour le lait.
Il avait besoin de "langes fraiches" de temps en temps

      La théorie de l'enfant qui grandit
L'enfance de l'enfant est le signe de son humanité
Il a grandi au fil des années de même que tout autre enfant (L'enfant grandissait et se fortifiait, tout rempli de sagesse; Luc 2, 40)

     La théorie des témoignages
Son enfance est un signe de son humanité
Ses douleurs de croissance sont un signe de son humanité
Sa croissance dans la connaissance de la famille à travers l'éducation est un signe de son humanité
Ses problèmes de relations interpersonnelles sont un signe de son humanité
Sa souffrance travers les tentations morales sont un signe de son humanité
Sa souffrance physique est un signe si son humanité

Compte tenu de tout ce qui précède, il est bon que Jésus est venu chez-nous comme un bébé.  Toutes ces déclarations sont vraies et valables, dans la mesure où ils vont.  J'en ai une qui est différente et divergente de tout ce qui précède.  Je suis convaincu que j'ai les enseignements de l'Ecriture Sainte comme fondement de mon opinion.

Je crois que Jésus est venu dans ce monde comme un bébé parce que Dieu le Père a une longue tradition de diriger ses créatures à collaborer avec lui. Dès les premières pages de la Genèse et à travers toute la collection de la Sainte Ecriture, Dieu dirige ses créatures vers la productivité.  Il dirige Adam de nommer les animaux, il accepte les sacrifices d'Abel, Il dirige Noé a la construction l'arche, Il appelle Abraham d'Ur, il recrute Moïse dans le but de le faire conduire son peuple hors d'Egypte et de publier la loi divine, Il s'attend que son peuple se bat pour la terre qu'il leur a promis et il utilise les prophètes comme guides spirituels de son peuple.  Toute l'histoire du salut est une histoire d'une relation de collaboration entre Dieu et sa créature, l'être humain.
Pour cette raison, son Fils, Jésus a été envoyé par Lui à la terre moyennant une de ses créatures, Marie.  Ainsi, c'était la responsabilité de Joseph et de Marie de nourrir le bébé, fils de Dieu, dans ses premiers stages de vie sur la terre.  C'était aux aînés et aux prêtres du Temple de l'instruire dans la Loi et de lui enseigner la spiritualité du mode de vie des juifs.  C'était l'affaire de Jean-Baptiste de le présenter à la communauté religieuse.  C'est au peuple de la nation de lui raconter ce que leur culture et leurs traditions exigeaient.  Oui, Jésus a dû avoir une existence humaine complète dans l'environnement humain, culturel qui le rendrait efficace dans la diffusion de son message.  Il a dû être exposée à la culture de la foi religieuse des principes de la loi, il devait être enseigné dans les traditions spirituelles de son peuple, qui se trouvaient a être le peuple élu de son Père.  Il a dû vivre au milieu des gens qui vivaient les enseignements des prophètes sous l'influence de la loi et dans la spiritualité du Temple.

Jésus a été formé dans sa vie par l'environnement social multiculturel de Galilée et les convictions religieuses de ses parents.  Cette formation a été selon la volonté de Dieu et elle a préparé Jésus a être ouvert à l'obéissance à la volonté de son Père.  Jésus a été immergé dans la tradition de la foi du peuple élu de son Père.  C'est dans et par cette familiarité profonde du peuple élu que Jésus était en mesure d'apporter l'autorité de Sa proximité avec son Père à son peuple.  Jésus a enseigné et vécu la foi dans le milieu de la controverse.  Même cette controverse était formative, non seulement de Jésus, mais des apôtres, qui étaient ses plus proches.  Sans l'exhaustivité de l'immersion culturelle qu'il n'aurait pas pu avoir a moins d’être un Juif complet, aurait-il pu accomplir la mission que lui avait donné son Père.


C'est pourquoi, à mon avis, Jésus est venu sur cette terre comme un bébé.


Sunday, August 11, 2013

PLEASE GOD? WHO? ME?

The Scripture readings of today called forth many of the same hackneyed homilies that we have heard for years.  Be ready or else be punished.  The same old stuff about the master goes away and the servant who is left in charge carouses and when the master comes home unexpected, the servant gets punished.  I sat there in church this morning and from the first syllable I knew what the next twelve minutes were going to be like.

I sat there asking myself when someone would think of talking about the trust of the master that has to be fulfilled by the servant in order to please the master?  When is someone going to give a meditation on what it means to please the master?  There is nothing in these readings that indicates an employer/employee relationship, is there?  There is nothing here that speaks of pay is there?  

There is not one place in the gospel that shows God remunerating anyone according to a strict adherence to productivity or time.  God doesn't ever pay anyone.  God rewards those who please Him.  He punishes those who displease Him.  God is not bound by any legal requirement to pay anyone for collaborating with Him.  God and we are bound together in a love covenant, not by an employment contract.  

Yes, we are bound to collaborate with God in the work that has to be done in the world.  From the very first pages of the Bible God enlists us as His collaborators.  Not employees.  Collaborators.  We find out the depth of the relationship when we are taught to pray by Jesus.  He tells us that we pray and develop a relationship with "Our Father."

I don't know about you, but I know that in my house my father had expectations of me and of my siblings concerning the chores that needed to be done.  You know what?  We did them, or else.  I remember one time I asked my father why he didn't give me an allowance like some of my friends got at their homes.  My father just looked at me and said, "I feed you, don't I?"  I was ashamed that I had even asked.  It also came to me that he not only fed me, but bought my school books, my clothes and even gave me a sip of wine at Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter.

All of that to say that <Yes, God expects us to collaborate with Him in the "chores" that need doing.>  If we do not meet expectations, He is not pleased.  If we meet expectations, He is pleased.  If we exceed expectations He is well pleased.  The more pleased He is the deeper our relationship with Him gets because the more His Grace flows our way.  
The more we displease Him, the worse things get.  You don't believe me?  There's a book on your shelf that has that teaching ennumerable times written into the more than 2,000 pages that are sitting there.  You will find the expression about God being pleased many times.

Stay ready?  Why tell me to stay ready when you could be telling me to keep my Father's loving satisfaction and pleasure in mind?  Staying ready is easy when you are doing what it takes to please the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.  When you tell me to live in constant and persevering readiness through loving collaboration with the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, then you won't have to keep harping on "staying ready."  Was it so hard for the five wise virgins to stay ready?

Remember, God doesn't pay wages, He shares His love and His spiritual treasure out of love to those who please Him by living in His presence by constant and collaborative faith, love and hope.

Think about it.  Do something about it in your life.  If you do, you'll be glad I reminded you about it and you won't have to cry at my funeral.

Friday, June 14, 2013

WHY WE NEED PARENTS

This is a fairly long meditative reaction to a heartfelt email message that reached me today.  I decided not to send the typical short, sentimental, straight from the heart response because I did not have one.  What I had then, some eight hours ago, and still have now is what follows.  I am bold enough to place it on this blog, under this title because what I have in my heart and my brain belongs here, as far as I am concerned.  Join me, if you will.

Parents are something that we all have.  Some for a shorter time than others.  Some for a very long time.  The majority of us live with our parents for about 18 to 25 years before the separation takes place.  Some of us never get the experience of a long term separation from our parents.  
Some of us appreciate the presence and the dynamism of the relationship between us and them.  We get to try out behaviors on them and either rejoice or suffer from the consequences.  The house is a laboratory of sorts where we get socialized, spiritualized, characterized and several other "izes" that we all know about from experience.  All these things make life with our parents a rich experience...for the most part.
Parents too enjoy life in this laboratory.  They know that from about age 25 through age 55 or so, they will share their entire beings with from about 1 to 12 children, depending on religious, cultural, economical and other elements.  They also know one other thing.  The children that they bring into the world may grow old, but they will never cease to be "my little boy" or "my little girl."  That is perhaps the most difficult pill for most children to swallow.  For some, however, it turns out to be the salvation that they need to have happy and comfortable lives.  That brings me to Laurie.

Laurie is a 40 plus year old lady who still lives with her mother and father.  I know them fairly well.  I also respect them more than they have come to know.  Papa and Mama have answered the special call from God to be special parents to a special needs child.  They have accepted their vocation and the relationship that they have with Laurie deserves a higher adjective that just special...It is sacramental.  It is covenantal.  It defines the meaning of marriage and parenthood for the communion of saints who see it.  This is a family who lives in a Cathedral of Love under the wings of the Angels and in the presence of the Spirit.  
Every now and then the Blue Light Special Prayer signal goes out from the family and along with it comes the report of the last visit that was played out at Massachusetts General Hospital with regards to the physical health of the Special Laurie.  It's usually not too good.  We all hear it, say our prayers, assure Papa and Mama that we join them in heart and soul and life goes on.  It goes on for Laurie too, despite the fact that some of the news is scientifically devastating.  Papa has told me several times that the doctors still don't know how this wonderfully patient and happy person can continue to be so contented with life.  Indeed, they even wonder how she can continue living at the level of energy and health that she does.
WE know.  We know something that the doctors are not allowed to enter into the equation.  Laurie's head primary care doctor is none less than God Himself.  She, Papa and Mama talk to God every single day.  She, Papa and Mama sit and listen to what God has to tell them, every single day.  No wonder that when she walks away from a long review session with the army of doctors who know her and study her and strive to understand what keeps her going and how they can help her to continue, she must just sit there and wonder "What now?"  

Today, for instance, the long email from Mama explained that Laurie's lung function is diminishing in efficiency.  Of course, Laurie being Laurie, she throws them a curve and proves to them that her breathing is perfectly fine.  Hmmm.  I don't know the whole story, but there's something mysteriously similar to this going on with her kidneys too.  Not to fret, brothers and sisters, energetic life goes on.  But wait, what does the scientific team say about this situation with the lungs?  Let's check it out, according to Mama's version.
"Start Laurie on a drug called rapamycin..."  Not good.  Bad experience with this drug in the past.
"Get Laurie into an on-going trial for a new drug..." Not good.  What if she falls into the "placebo group?"  Hmmm.  Good question.
"Wait and see."  Yep.  Very scientific exercise.
Well, frankly, they don't call doctors practitioners for nothing.  They are professionals at practicing.  When they want a real answer, they ask your parents.  In this case, as in many others, that is the perfect place for the answer to lie.  Laurie, Papa and Mama went straight to God and to God's friends.  There's the one who knows.  He is the one who manages Laurie's kidneys.  He's also the one who keeps her breathing normally with diminishing lung capacity.  He's not willing to let her go.  He's got far too many important things for her to do.  Papa and Mama can attest to that.  Laurie can too.  Me too, but I'll die before I write some of the suggestions that I have.  Oh, I can write this one:  Laurie and her parents are going to cure everyone from wanting to cry at my funeral.  They're going to do it with the good example of what it means to be a Job family.  Or to be the family whose oil never runs out because they are caring for the prophet.  

By the way, no one ever said that this is easy.  No one ever said that being a child of God is easy.  God demands that we collaborate with Him to get things done.  So, Laurie, Papa and Mama live in a tight knit spiritually alert community collaborating with God in the job of keeping Laurie and themselves energetic in His presence.  Without God in that house, who knows what it would look like?  Two seventy year old parents with a 45 year old child and no God?  Don't even try to imagine it.  
Brothers and sisters, that's why we need parents.  That's why our children need parents, no matter how old they are.  
Remember why I put these thoughts here under this title: there is to be no crying at my funeral.  Why?  Because God has taken it easy on me for all these years.  He lets me be a grouch and get away with it.  What more can I ask for?  Don't cry for Papa and Mama of Laurie because when their job is done, God will take care of them.  Don't cry for Laurie because she is the sign of God's presence in our midst.  Let us honor her with our prayers so that she will never waver in her resolve to be a saint in God's eyes and ours.  Not just for her good, but for ours as well.  We ask this through Jesus, our Savior who lives and reigns with the Father and the Holy Spirit forever.

Sunday, April 28, 2013

FAITH, NOT FOR JUST A YEAR, BUT FOR A LIFETIME


Faith is born of a call from God.  No one can take the credit for personal faith and conversion.  It was not Abraham who took the initiative to leave or to invent a new way to serve God.  Neither did God invite him with a proposal that he could contest with his own opinion.  God called him in the imperative and this is the same way that the glorious prophets and saints were called.
It is in this way that God freed them.   As a consequence of sin, all humans are born and live in the foreign land of sin.  The fullness of our personal reality is not grounded in God for as long as we are not in communion with Him.  Our religions and our ideologies as products of our culture do not permit us to transcend the limits of a world that we make by and for ourselves according to the measure of our own resources.   In order for us to take full conscience of our call, it is necessary for God to call us and that we accept the invitation to escape the fatal circle.

Faith places us in the service of God’s will which is to save humanity.  It is possible that for a moment God attracts us with a personal favor, but then he inserts us into His specific projects to the end of saving the world.  In order to follow Christ and be a part of His Chosen People, it is necessary to believe in the promises that God made to His people.  Godz destined us to be the yeast and the light of the world.

Faith requires a breaking away.  It obliges us to look forward without yearning for the warmth and comfort of the womb.  Humans grow by overcoming “crisis” after “crisis” in life.  They leave their family, go to work, get married… Faith gives us the strength to confront these ruptures with optimism and brings us to the point where we can confront more painful ones.  This process allows us to enter more deeply into the service of God.  Faith is the greatest medium through which humans grow into maturity.

The Faith of Abraham teaches us the difference between earthly human who construct their lives according to the standards of human wisdom and believe that they know where they are going, and the person of faith who seeks the signs of god in order to see where God wills the path forward to be.  For an entire life, the person of faith is a wanderer,  a pilgrim seeking higher righteousness, purer justice and greater perfection than that which is the product of purely human confection.