Here's how the Gospel describes the event of the day:
"As Jesus passed by, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the customs post.
He said to him, "Follow me." And he got up and followed him.
While he was at table in his house, many tax collectors and sinners came and sat with Jesus and his disciples. The Pharisees saw this and said to his disciples, "Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?"
He heard this and said, "Those who are well do not need a physician, but the sick do.
Go and learn the meaning of the words, I desire mercy, not sacrifice. I did not come to call the righteous but sinners." (Matt. 13; 6-9)
When you finish smiling and shaking your head and "tsk, tsk-ing" at the Pharisees, continue sitting quietly where you are and review who your guests were over the last month or so.
Do you sit comfortably at the same table with a cheating auto mechanic? A loose pharmacist? A divorced and remarried Catholic who is gaming the Church because of a rebellious conscience? Do you have the neighborhood same-sex "married" couple over for cocktails now and then? Maybe you've decided not to have your unmarried child and grandchildren come to your house any more because of their sin. Do you patronize corporations who are blatantly immoral in their behavior regarding employees? Are you one of those who willingly accept pirated software from your relative who has the good fortune to work for Google? Are you one of those who refuses to consort with Christians who have Muslim friends?
Are you one of those who seek out only the WELL because the SICK are repugnant? And, Jesus might ask: How do you decide who is WELL and who is SiCK?
I guess I could go on, but I won't because you, dear reader know whom it is that you accept into your life and whom it is that you exclude from your life. I am writing this, and I know that I am one of us all...But Jesus is the one who reminds us today that we have to rise above this kind of behavior, just as He did.
Yes, don't exclude people from your life; don't kill your enemy, pray for him(her). Remember, Jesus did not send us out to cull the wheat from the chaff; He did not commission us to sort His children out. He sent us to love them and baptize them.
Remember, you heard it here from the one who forbids you to cry at his funeral.